So my Mother & I are really close and & always have been. When I went to all my school dances, my 1st kiss, my 1st true love, when my baby girl was born and for every other situation that a amazing memory has came from.. When I got divrorced life was really, really tough with my family.. So it took about 10 months just for my family to come around & accept Garrett. Its been quite the long crazy & wine-deeeee Road.. My Mom was the quickest to adapt to him My sis & Brother in-law had a hard time.. All was going very very well up until about 1 month ago.. We just got a new house & then DRAMA came along.. someTHING happened that had turned mine aswell as my mothers opinion about life in general upside down.. I tell my mother everything including what Garrett had done.. I really don't ever know if My Mamma will forgive him. I don'y know if she has ever had to hold me in her arms and let me SOB the way I did when I was a child. My pain that I had went threw was going threw her aswell.. Life has been a little strange not having Garr & Mom get along to great.. I guess because I have never had a man do something so heart wrenching to me.. I never had to worry about another GIRL coming in between MY MAN & I.. but it happened and life has gone on SO... My mother Emailed this to me Yesterday & it really touched me.. Thought I would share it with all who reads my blog!!!
A mother tries to provide her daughter with insight
into the important things in life
in order to make her life
as happy and fulfilling as possible.
A mother tries to teach her daughter
to be good, always helpful to other people
to be fair, always treating others equally
to have a positive attitude at all times
to always make things right when they are wrong
to know herself well
to know what her talents are
to set goals for herself
to not be afraid of working too hard to reach her goals.
A mother tries to teach her daughter
to have many interests to pursue
to laugh and have fun every day
to appreciate the beauty of nature
to enter into friendships with good people
to honor their friendships and always be a good friend
and to particularly respect and love our elder members
to use her intelligence all times
to listen to her emotions
to adhere to her values
A mother tries to teach her daughter
to not be afraid to stick to her beliefs
to not follow the majority when the majority is wrong
to carefully plan a life for herself
to vigorously follow her chosen path
to enter into a relationship with someone worthy of herself
to love this person unconditionally with her body and mind
to share all that she has learned in her life with this person
If I have provided you with an insight
into most of these things
then I have succeeded as a mother
in what I hoped to accomplish in raising you
if many of these slipped by
while we were all so busy
I have a feeling you know them anyway
One thing I am sure of though,
I have taught you to be proud of the fact
that you are a woman equal to all men and
that I have loved you every second of your life
I have supported you at all times
as a mother, as a person, and as a friend
I will always continue to Cherish and love
everything about you
my beautiful daughter.
I am SO blessed to have such an amazing MOTHER... I love ya Ma....
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